Signs you're with the wrong guy
These are some signs you feel when you are with the wrong person in any
relationship. you always feel there is a line between both of you that
will never end, but when u search deep, there is d finish point right in
front of you.
You Don't Feel Like You Can Be Yourself
Your friends tell you you've changed. You are always watching what you
say or how you act, because your partner tends to get on your case or
has been critical of you in the past. You just never feel completely
relaxed around them, even after dating for a good amount of months. If
you can't be who you truly are with your significant other, it's time to
think hard about what you are doing in a situation like this...and why.
No one is worth this much sacrifice.
You're Unhappy
While it's true that our partners aren't responsible for our happiness,
they should certainly make our days a little brighter! Someone who is
dating the right person consistently enjoys the relationship and feels a
general sense of happiness (arguments aside!). If you find yourself
unhappy most of the time -- and especially when you are with them --
then this may be a sign that this isn't the best person for you.
They Exhaust You
Instead of feeling energized after hanging out with your partner, you
feel emotionally drained most of the time. They seem to always have
something to complain about, or just have a negative outlook on life.
Either way, the person you choose to spend your life with should really
lift you up rather than drag you down. And it shouldn't feel like "work"
most of the time.
The Friend Factor
If you are with someone and don't really want to introduce them to your
friends, this is not a good sign (and you should ask yourself why!). If
you are with someone and they never bring you around their friends, it's
another sign. If your most trusted friends are expressing concern about
your relationship, take heart. These people may be able to see things
more objectively than you, so it's important to be open and hear what
they have to say.
You Never Envision the Future Together
After a certain amount of time together, it is normal to start thinking
about what the future might be like as a couple. If you have been with
your partner for awhile and just don't see how it would ever work
together down the line, it might be a good idea to evaluate why you are
with this person and what you are really looking for.
You are Like Night and Day
He loves to go out every night and sleep late. You like to just be home
and get an early start. He wants to be together seven nights a week,
while you love time with your girlfriends. Compatibility is an essential
ingredient for a happy and peaceful union, and if you and your partner
have many fundamental differences, it may make things that much harder.
You're Not Excited to See or Hear From Them
She calls you...and you send it to voicemail. Or sometimes you actually
avoid him. You realize that you feel completely ambivalent when you are
around him. Many of us go through the motions and are so afraid to be
alone that we stay in situations which aren't fulfilling. Dating should
be fun, exciting and heartwarming, not another chore. It's not always
going to be sunshine and roses, but you should feel happy to see them
most of the time.
You Don't Feel Good about Yourself
In addition to feeling happy, a person in a good relationship usually
has a positive self esteem. Sure, they will have some doubts and
insecurities (who doesn't?), but the time they spend with their partner
will make them feel better about themselves, not worse. In contrast, if
your partner exacerbates your self doubts and undermines your
confidence, it's time to stand up for yourself...and say see ya later!
The Cons of Staying Together Outweigh the Pros
A cost-benefit analysis can actually be helpful in situations other than
at the office. Sit down for a few minutes and write down the advantages
of staying with your partner. Then list the disadvantages. When you
compare the lists, you will either find that the benefits outweigh any
disadvantages, or that reasons to break up are more compelling than the
ones to stay together.
Your Instincts are Whispering - Get Out
As a general rule, the voices inside us are there for a reason, and they
should be listened to. Don't ignore the subtle red lights your
subconcious is warning you about. Ultimately, our hearts know what is
right for us. Give your inner voice free rein and let it direct you to
the conclusions that are best for you.
Find someone who treats you like you need to be treated and makes you
happy. Someone who makes you feel good about yourself, and whom the
people you trust encourage you to be with
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